Our empathic abilities allows us to see inside you and we can pull out the most sensitive things that no one knows and use them as weapons to destroy your very being if we are crossed. They know how to break your heart and lie to you constantly in order to always look good and avoid confrontations. They hate themselves most times and only thru relarionships do they function on a higher level and learn about themselves. But hard for the Librans who try their absolute best so show that they are genuine, and actually try to be even and open minded. I'll counter her with a weapon she despises kicking and screaming back into her own pit of hell yes, I'll kill her with my own personal happiness! I had left him. Scorpio's passion can turn negative when they're feeling sad or depressed, causing them to become hostile, isolated, and have violent mood swings. They isolate themselves and start to detach, even though they still attempt to appear happy. Should you become aware that the Libra woman in your life is sad or upset, be certain that you show her that you are available for support. Look: This is a very typical attitude for a Libra man. I hide my negative emotions and just keep it. Because, my inability to cope with my emotions and disability to be alone should never weight others down. I am POSITIVE I am not the only libra who thinks this. They might have obsessive thinking and remember every bad event that's happened to them, even blaming themselves for the most innocuous things. im prayin she would find a bf to get a distraction. I spent 2 hours on that phone listening to her sob story and when I put the phone down, she remained in my head, like a mosquito biting my brain, irritating, annoying and. poisonous. Why, its hard to believe its the same person! This content is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional. She seems to create alot of drama, does not have a good word to say about people, compains. Checking up on me and that left me feeling so confused. Pinning any unoleasantness you are experiencing from people on Libras, flies in the face of Spirituality, as we understand it. This describes her to a T. I couldn't wrap my head around it because I'm not like that. seems the guys dont stay very long wonder why . Candice NY from NYC on December 02, 2018: Libras are great as long as you keep it superficial. Break out of your shell and be the life of the party. Libra: Don't leave them alone It triggered me into believing that the Libra still loved me. Whoever wrote thiswrote it in a condescending way towards libraswhat is there zodiac? She recently sent me a negative text about her husband. Libras are known for being charming, beautiful, and well-balanced. We lie bc we love people so much that we hate seeing any sadness in them, and also to protect ourselves from the evil and hurt of the world. Copyright 2023 Astrology Cosmos on the Foodie Pro Theme. Libra Man Not Texting Back: What Do I Do? She was having an affair with a much younger man who lavished gifts on her constantly, this we knew was true, she talked terribly about him behind his back, belittling berating and putting him down constantly, she would talk badly about other staff when she thought no one was around, if you caught her at it and called her out on her behaviour then you could count yourself the enemy. Irritability is the worst part I hate about myself. Following your star sign kind of feels like a guide into the real you. I will never justify our dark side. I let her into my world denying my gut instinct and being the stupidly open person I can be, shared a few secrets - thankfully nothing shameful, just emotional things from my past. I am a bi Leo female and fell for this Libra woman, who I have been friends with for around 2-3 years, and fell for her over a year ago. (Of course I'm born in October hahaI happen to be controlling indeed toward those who get closer to me; in the work-social arenaa combination of practicality- choosing your battles- and impracticality - picking battles you can't win, just to make a point, I do that too. Libra is a sign that exploits the very positive stereotype given to them in many articles, but and a big but. This is also called sosiopathic. It is possible that her downcast feelings will develop into anger or rage. He is probably one of the shitiest father's of met, however, I am one of the most fatherly/tribal individuals you'll ever meet. When the fact of the matter is, they no fodder to throw back. I won't let anyone treat her badly. Because it's almost impossible to feel sorry for them. Like every other sign they have a bright side, but that's not the subject of this article. That only helps to make it clear that those people are not compatible and I don't want them in my life. Don't take this as a sign of weakness or to underestimate use.v.e.r. Pro Libra tip: let go of your high expectations and unreal fantasies, life will become a lot more easier. I'm Aquarius and many followed after constellations Libra and always pretended I did not notice, but they are so careful people! When contronted, she will attacks you, cry, yell about how unfair life is and youre a bad guy for tainting the pristine image that they have. Guys you are reading an article about the DARK SIDE of Libra, of course you are going to read a lot of bad things! Because of this, they may be more prone to bottling up their feelings or acting passive-aggressive. I make plans throughtout the day BUT due to my overveight condition, which caused not having any energy and whole body and soul atching feeling even when i walk made me lazy. Libras are known to hide their real feelings in order to avoid conflicts with the people around them. Heres something to know about a libra, they have a gut feeling that is almost always accurate, if you hurt a libra and not be able to make it up to them fully they will use and hurt you in anyway possible over the smallest things yet not feel any remorse. I feel that 2015/ 2016 were the worst years of my life. He did work hard to improvise that space for me. How Can I Help a Depressed Capricorn Man? Sylvia Sky (author) from USA on September 06, 2016: The constellation Libra contains stars that belonged to Scorpio until astronomers (not astrologers!) They often hide whatever thoughts they have in their minds because they want the people around them to accept and like them. I didn't thank god my parents were there to snap me out of it. Yes and no as a libra it's easier to show negative emotions than positive it's kinda complicated, we feel things really deeply and are sensitive but we don't really show it much.. the most genuine reactions from us is anger, sadness and anxiety. I am no drama queen though. Not one good libra i came along,what's wrong with this sign ,i mean seriously? 1.) I much rather have Libra friends, lovers, co-workers, or acquaintances than any other sign. They try to show that nothing is wrong. I learned the term for what Libras do to create this unnecessary drama it's called TRIANGULATION! He can be flirty but is seldom emotional. But talk to damn much. The only reason I can think of is that, it is because we hide ourself so well in public that we carry all the annoyances and irritation back home, to a place we do not need to hide and while at home, the slightest irritation can wreck havoc. They are the true incarnations of the narcissists! You've hit every nail on the head (or should I say the nail to every Psychic Vampyre Libran's Coffin.. ). Some of us try really hard to break the image a handful of Librans create. S-so libras stuff i didnt know. im sorry libras act like thisi havent acted like that but i guess that comes when you grow up im sorry AChandler78 Interesting and winded monologue just not sure if you believe your bs or just working tirelessly to convince us? The negative side of Libra is hard to bear. As well as the comments below. I, possibly am the most un-materialistic human being. Because they repress their pain and everybody else's, they have meltdowns. I get along with Virgos and Scorpios just fine. Why loyalty. Ive been so bad to you all this time. The more articulate Libras will quote Gandhi: Hate the sin but love the sinner., George Zimmerman, killer of Trayvon Martin (Oct. 5). Do Libras Hide Their Emotions? Aries (March 21 April 19) "While Aries can be charmed by Libra for a while, one thing Aries can't stand is neediness," Monahan says. The word baddie was created because of them. Last Updated on October 31, 2020 by Sloane Marie. One of them that you should really fear about my dark side are my games that I put you in (you are my pawn and will always be until I get my revenge or I hear an apology if not you'll never be out of my loop until you're gone or I am). I used to call her a best friend but she is far from it. And while it would be nice to have this kind of mind-reader in our lives, we should always make sure we understand our own emotions before we get others involved. Very well. I have zero desires to be a negative libra but honestly don't how to turn it around or even if I can. in the meantime she was trying to chat him up. Really a Pisces dreamworld is the realest compared to it. If a libras dark side showing youve had to provoke them in some way. The verbal abuse was ridiculous. I try to always be fair and give everyone a fair chance. But if they open up, their anger and sadness could lead to disaster. One Libran is not going to be the same as the other. Think i am not fake person. Pretty damn true. Please remember the good out ways the bad, because we love very hard. As soon as the topic turns emotional, he'll clam up. 5.) It's one way to alert someone that you're angry with them and get them to give you some attention without having to ask for it in a direct way. Great lays. She may choose to pour all of her time and energy into a single task, while simultaneously ignoring more pragmatic or practical concerns. This funk can have lasting effects until a Capricorn really gets back to their old self. Am I going to take out all my frustrations on my wife and kids even???? I am a lion. My behavior is actually a slight reflection of yours. She made me hate my dad for cheating but she herself cheat several times. im sure its not just the libra in her, she is a narcissist. ( I'm an aquarius.) This can make it difficult for them to express themselves and may cause them to avoid conflict at all costs. Not all Librans try to make it up to people, but I know a good portion of them out there do. My wife told me how she was teased a lot coming up and I was did all I could to show her how much I loved her. i am in my 40's and i have went total no contact with her on several times. This is VERY VERY INACCURATE. I'm a libra myself. They can become uneasy and silent, very unlike themselves, especially around their friends. I'm just dealing with a toxic one. Only then can they have heightened compulsions, turning into an unrecognizable and impulsive being. They are freaking insecure. I know that sounds brash, and probably just as bad as how Librans have been painted on here, but there is a very specific driving force as to why I acted the way that I did, and it's because of how how she treated my children. Im a confrontational Capricorn and tell it like it is. I ignore my family my friends and my work. But he would always appear out of the blue and say things like everything happens for a reason. They see everyone as mindless and feel called to enlighten them. Other day called her home only to have her drunk freind try to question me on religion? Fang you at this point. my libra daughter who is 17 has buddied up with my libra mother and she doesnt understand the evil in my mother. With their words, Libras can easily make a fool of belligerent and uncouth individuals who act as though the world revolves around them. But that is a learned thing. what a joke!!! He will talk to you for hours about anything. I found out later they talked on the phone after my wife told me. My strict advice as a Leo, NEVER EVER GO FOR A SCORPIO no matter if ur sign is a good match and if u do get along in the startU will just end up ruined or even dead. We crave beauty and an ethereal, gossamer rythm to the world around us..and the people in our lives.but we never demand anything that those around us are incapable of providing. im a libra 10/6/1992, and I loved this article because it is accurate. The one I know best is so selfish, vindictive that she doesn't care who's life she ruins while in the process of getting what she wants. But when the phone rings, Libra will answer it calmly and sweetly. We've all got good and bad sides ofcourse since nobodys perfect but I find Libras so well rounded. Libra's feel and intuit EVERYTHING.so the world can be vastly overwhelming for those Libra's that don't have an earth sign to anchor them in this world. My mom is a libra and she is exactly like that. 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